im cringe and i just want to like posts. (he/him+profdx+college+proship)
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"Transautistic" You're not autistic.
"Transbpd" You don't have bpd.
"Transocd" You don't have ocd.
"Transadhd" You don't have adhd.
"Transhospitalized" You're not in the hospital.
"Transblind" You aren't blind.
"Transamputee" You aren't an amputee.
For fucks sakes stop roplaying into harmful stereotypes. You make it harder for the people who actually have the issue. Its disgusting.
friendly reminder that radqueers aren't valid <3
you're romanticizing suffering and the experiences that led to it <3
you're tokenizing actual people's experiences and stereotyping them <3
go fuck yourself <3
proship culture is wanting radqueers to get the fuck out of our tags
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shota of the month for april coming as soon as my drawing program behaves
avpd culture is i would talk to you, but there's something deeply wrong with me. i can hide it from you as best i can initially but eventually something will give and i'll ghost you and never think of you again so that i don't feel the shame of all that time I was visible to you
Guys please are we normal about proshippers who dont like sexual content? Are we normal about sex-repulsed proshippers? Are we normal about proshippers who only like fluffy stories?
Are we normal about proshippers?
type of girl who sees every type of relationship as a transaction or debt they cant fufill and isolates itself from society
avpd/szpd culture is experiencing "love" more like a reptile would--in the sense that you are familiar to me and I appreciate you, however I cant feel any deep emotional connection to you.
If you advocate for mental health awareness, but joke about things like intrusive thoughts and schizophrenia, think it’s disgusting and lazy when people who are depressed can’t do things like showering or cleaning their room, use terms like “narcissistic abuse”, and believe that having ASPD, BPD, or NPD makes someone a bad person, you are not a mental health advocate. You don’t actually care about helping people or de-stigmatizing mental illness, you just want to make yourself feel like you do. You can’t pick and choose what disorders and symptoms are acceptable, and which ones make someone a bad person. Either you support everyone, or you support no one.
and if you’re neurodivergent/mentally ill and you do any of those things, you are part of the problem. there’s no such thing as “good/moral” disorders, or “bad/immoral” disorders. We all need to have each other’s backs.
yknow qhat i love seeing? people with the "scary" or "mean" or "evil" disorders getting silly with it. thats definitely destigmatizing it /srs
like, if audhd people get to joke around about their disorders, not always treat it with an absurd amount of weight, so does everyone else. i love you aspd people who make jokes about your disorder, you deserve to do that without being called an edgy teen. i love you npd people make memes about it. i love you scary people who get to destigmatize your disorders by laughing.
Btw people with Autism aren't the "good" people with low/no empathy, and people with ASPD or NPD aren't the "bad" people with low/no empathy. Stop demonizing personality disorders for the love of god.
Sometimes having a fiance is him having to tell you to stop eating his fucking hairties when you miss him
Room temperature take but I think some of you guys are only here for the Darkships and to seem “edgy” and aren’t actually anti harassment
why are so many radqueers in the proship tags? like, genuine question. it’s so hard to filter out radqueers in this community. it’s like we’ve merged together? I’m sure there must be other proshippers that’re anti-radqueer. But we swarm eachothers tags, for some reason. I don’t get it.
shota so gnc they think hes a loli.. i repeat...
ai does not belong in creative spaces. period.
all these young, 'conservative-in-a-progressive-hat' antis spewing garden-variety death threats over pixels is sending me, lmao.
actively hating on someone who ships something different than you? doxxing and stalking? trying to make others conform?
sorry bro/sis, having a " toddler in the sandbox/i said i get to decide others' morality and trauma responses " moment is cringe asf.
oh, and --- let us know when you've got better comebacks.
The death of creativity lives strong within many antis, in their choices, creations, and threats.
wish I could hug my younger self and tell them that they are not ugly for their ethnic traits. I'd look them in their heterochromatic eyes and trace my fingers over their different mandible and different maxilla and different zygomatic bones and differently shaped nose, and I would coo over their 'misshapen' ears, and I would tell them that I've learned to love where my face came from. I wish I could tell them that the way their body looked wasn't their fault, that they weren't disgusting for being thin with hyperflexible joints and ballet-read-feet and a unibrow. They will learn to love these traits, they will learn to love where their family came from.
I had a dream that Trump remade the democratic party, except it was called Schmoerkl, and it was his version of how democrats should be.
have an urge to create an online presence
post something in a discord server
instant regret! overwhelming shame!
its been hours at this point and i still feel awful!
Alr no one is gonna talk about this so i guess i will, even if i really do not want to bring this sort of topic onto my account.
Long long ass post so (i’m a Proshipper AND ANTI-radqueer. rant ahead)
As a proshipper who has been harmed by "pro-c radqueers" (and questioned joining the community for a while for reasons i will also discuss later on) It is extremely difficult for me to interact with fellow Anti-rqs (blogs or just people) because of the idea that all proshippers are also rq.
I am not here to start discourse, Just to spread the word around that while we may disagree on shipping and fiction, please know that many proshippers do not want any of the true harm that rqs push onto others!! The proship community has been here far far longer than them, we have unfortunately had to deal with becoming their scapegoat over time and i would love for others to recognize that anti-rq proshippers exist, But interacting with the community makes it feel as though one can "only be on [the actual irl danger] side if you're into [fictional characters doing something i do not like] thing" , it makes it very easy for some proshippers to fall into the trap, !!!!Radqueers depend on others’ exclusionism to take advantage and bring others into their community!!!!!
Yes, many Rqs are proshippers, but proshippers are not all inherently rq!!! Kind of like a squares and rectangles situation.
antirqs: hey um maybe it should be a red flag to you guys that so many people come out of your community traumatized?
prats: shut up you transidphobe you're the reason for bigotry everywhere you scum
actual neo nazi: heil hitler
prats: omg!! cisnazi hiii!!! we have a flag for you dw!! you are 100% welcome here <33 ignore those mean antis, you are free to be your true cisnazi self here <33
in case you think im strawmanning
aging your self insert down >>>>>>
A continuation of my project of making a cute lil shota OC for every month of the year !
there are no qualifications for liking dark fiction, by the way. you don't have to be traumatized. you don't have to be using it as a coping mechanism. you can enjoy it without having a reason beyond just liking it, there's nothing wrong with that!
my social media page is not your childs fucking daycare. i dont have to cater to YOUR children on MY page. why dont you watch what the fuck your kid is doing online and quit getting pissed at random adults that theyre seeing adult content on a website that allows adult content.