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we typically use the stance labels of oldqueer and hazardqueer.
this post will also include conversation of things that can possibly be triggering.
using the block button if something bothers you, unless it's valid to report. if it isn't grounds for a police report, just block someone instead of going to harass
here is also our full "shipcourse" stance, which is more of a rant than an explanation. this is for later in the list, but i'd rather put it here where more people will see it.
we are pro :
liom/mogai, and other microlabels, including ficto- and objectum (as well as posic)
contradictory labels
endogenic systems, created systems, and generally all system/plural origins
therians, otherkin, and alterhumans, including physical therians
alternative terms like chronosian, dissomei, desirdae, etc. as well as biid
self-diagnosis with extensive, informed research
being pro-active in your real-life communities if at all possible
reclamation of slurs that fit with yourself and your background
kink at pride events (as long as you keep yourself away from those who personally don't want to see it, or children)
paraphilias, and helping those with harmful or nonconsensual paraphilias that are trying to get help
supporting and seeing other peoples' viewpoints, as long as they are respectful, as well as nuanced conversation
supporting people and families from ukraine, palestine, the congo, and other countries that need freedom if you can financially
harm reduction, and the destigmatizing of people who use drugs
sex workers, and the people who rely on those kinds of jobs to survive in this economy and world
piracy and media preservation. we also hate billionaries
we are neutral on :
factkin (simply because we don't quite understand and haven't for a long time)
transids that do not include transitioning to another race, chronological age, disability/disorder, etc. (pretty much boils down to non-harmful transids. we think other terms are better, but we don't police language here)
the usage of "tulpa" as a term (we don't personally use it, and instead use thoughtform or other terms. however, again, we won't police your language)
syscourse (a lot of it is harmful. but a thoughtful, reasonable discussion of plural discourse is decent enough and sometimes needed to get your point across. just be kind to your fellow plurals)
we are against :
being rude to others for no reason
radqueers, xenosatanists, and harmful transids (including transharmful, transrace, transage, transabled, etc. this does not include transspecies)
consang/incest and beastiality in both real life and fiction (of course, people can write what they want to, but we are very against the romanticization of these things and absolutely prefer to not see it anywhere. to us, it's absolutely nasty and foul. and in real life, this shit is rightfully illegal! at least in america)
lolicon and shotacon material. refer to the anti-censorship thing, but to us, it doesn't matter if a child is fictional or not. those are still children, regardless whether they are real or not. if it "rids you of your urges," keep it offline. and especially keep it away from us
pro-contact for harmful or nonconsensual paraphilias including pedophilia, zoophilia, necrophilia, etc. and encouraging those types of paraphilias
most online censorship, although things such as csem, real-life gore (especially of children and animals), etc. need to be heavily monitored or outright removed. however, people can write what they want to write
terfs, radical feminists in general (even if they are "trans-inclusive"), "gender criticals," transmedicalists, system medicalists, and any group that focuses on gatekeeping and exclusivity
minors in kink or nsfw spaces online (for the safety of children online. we were heavily in those spaces when we were younger and it affected us for the worse. don't post nsfw if you are a minor — only keep your thoughts to friends around the same age as you that you know are comfortable with that type of conversation)
the idea of "personality disorder abuse." not all abusers are narcissists and not all narcissists are abusive. same thing with borderlines)