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— ring-a-ling ding! new system role incoming!

(CHECK MY REBLOGS FOR THE FLAG!)

a new order just arrived : fadhbpart !

so, like. ok. i, nec, have a fragment in my (ringed) subsystem that is. not my favorite to say the least. shi is a type of part that i don't really like or vibe with personally, but i had to make a role for lust because absolutely no other terms can possibly fit. and now that i've redone our profile, i figured that i'd post this for the public to see.

heads up, this term includes rad//queer and dark//ship mentions. we aren't rad//queer and never will be! and please for the love of everything holy do not send hatemail because that is a guaranteed block. abide by your own dni's please.

— fadhbpart :

a persecutor who acts in "problematic" ways according to the rest of the [system], or engages in such behavior as a way to vent for the [system], rid oneself or the [system] of urges, or for other related reasons. a fadhbpart does not act in accordance to the rest or majority of the [system]'s views.

this term is not to be directly forced upon someone in a system. this term also does not support harmful actions taken in real life (including rad//queer "transitioning"), and is only for online usage due to the sensitive nature of such a concept. please use this role with care.

— ( fadhb, pronounced "fibe," roughly translates to "problem" in irish gaelic. )

( terms in brackets are obviously able to be changed for whatever a plural calls oneself. )

examples of a fadhbpart can include :

a headmate who is rad//queer or uses related terms to describe oneself, in a system that is majority anti rad//queer

a headmate who uses or ships dark//ships for whatever reason, whilst in a system that is majority antiship or anti dark//ship

a headmate who has or holds an addiction (and acts on said addiction) that the others do not have.

.. and more. this is for whatever you deem to be not in accordance with the rest of your headmates.

this is coined by a trauma-endo system, but it is for all systems and plurals alike to use. i don't gatekeep my terms! but please don't interact with this post if you are included in my dni.

a reminder for anyone who feels like they're going to spiral, do something bad to themselves or someone else, etc. :

you aren't a bad person.

it's okay to let your feelings out, but do so responsibly. there is always at least someone who will let you use them as a support system. there is always at least one healthy coping mechanism that will work for you.

take a deep breath, smell the flowers. focus on the environment around you. listen to the sounds of the outside. clench all of your muscles and slowly, one by one, let the tension go. light a few candles, or sage. pray, if your belief system includes it.

listen to reiki, asmr, or guided meditation. listen to music, no matter the genre. write out your feelings, even if it's a first draft. watch something you love; hell, do something you love. distract yourself from the feelings of guilt, anger, and anguish.

of course, you can't always run away from it. that's fine. leave it for now, and come back to it later in a healthier mindset. sleep on it. forget it in the moment.

just take care of yourself. you got this!

( anti-endogenics are able to interact with this post. self-care is for everyone. )

this is exactly why we hate the system community

good job ruining it

telling a harmless group to die is disgusting behavior

daily reminder to tumblr themselves endos and tulpas should all hang themselves for being ableist!! created plurality is not a thing.

Transferian

A transferian system (AKA katamaric or amalgamic) is a median system where the facets "come and go". The core idea of transferians is that the facet(s) eventually become the host of the system, and while the old host leaves, it may leave fragments of its personality. The new host, taking on the role not only inherits the traits of former hosts but also adds their own traits.

Some traits of former hosts may be lost to time, but it's not permanent as they can be reintroduced by a facet that happens to have a similar aspect.

Note: While this term was coined with medians in mind, this is not a strictly exclusive term.

also on pluralpedia! (alt text embedded)

SHOUTOUT TO TRANSID PEOPLE TOO!!!! LOVE YOU ALL!

SHOUT OUT TO BEINGS WHO FIT THE "RADQUEER STEREOTYPE"

SHOUT OUT TO AMERICAN RADQUEERS

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO HOARD LABELS

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO ARE TRANSITIONING TO BE ASIAN

SHOUT OUT RADQUEERS WHO ARE A PART OF THE BIG 3

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO ARE OPENLY EROTIC

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO ARE CHRONICALLY ONLINE

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO CAN'T/DON'T GO OUTSIDE

You are REAL and VALID !! <3